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Kevin and I have been married for 19 years. We have two heart grown children from the United States,adopted at birth, Garrett 16 and Morgan 14, one heart grown child from Ukraine in 2008, Justin age 13. We also have two dogs, Mattie and Halley, adopted from the local animal shelter. Adoption is close to our family's heart.

Friday, November 21, 2008

The Isolation Ward

Our court decree will be finalized on Monday. In anticipation of leaving, the orphanage has removed Justin and the Clark kids from school and the "general population". The kids are couped up in the infirmary waiting to be sprung from "the joint". It sounds like a bad prison movie, doesn't it? Nobody will tell Pam for sure why they are being separated; we can only guess that it's for their health and safety. We know that kids at school treat Justin badly for being an orphan, and the other kids in the orphanage can get mean and say all sorts of things when someone gets adopted.

Pam has noticed that the kids are getting quiet and less talkative as the reality of leaving is hitting them. This is the only life and the only friends and caretakers that Justin has known. He won't even be allowed to wear any of his clothes out of there to remind him since he has to give them back to the orphanage.

Praise God that he got a glimpse of family when he stayed with us last year. I pray that he will change into new clothes and start his new life with a grateful heart for those who cared for him thus far and for the family that now loves him. Pam's journey is near the end; Justin's is only beginning.

3 comments:

Lynette said...

I am praying for sweet Justin. How tough for him! We can't wait to meet him:)

adopting2fromUkraine said...

That is a great way to look at it. New clothes representing a new life!

June

junglemama said...

COngrats. Forgive me for not keeping up on your story. How old are your new additions? If you ever want to talk, feel free to email me.

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